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At Music Lab, we often hear the question:

"Do you prepare students for music grades?"


The short answer? Yes, if it aligns with the student’s goals.

The long answer? We don’t believe grades are the best path for every musician.


Music grades have long been part of music education culture. Many parents assume they are essential for learning an instrument, but the truth is music exams can often do more harm than good.


In this edition of Parents Lab, we want to challenge the assumptions about grades and explore why they don’t align with our growth mindset philosophy. We believe that music should be a lifelong, enriching experience—not just a series of hoops to jump through.


The Problem With Exam-Centered Learning


Graded music exams—like those from ABRSM, Trinity, or Rockschool—provide structured progression and a sense of achievement. However, they also come with limitations that can hinder a student’s long-term growth and enjoyment of music.


Fixed Mindset vs. Growth Mindset


Exams create a fixed mindset, where progress is measured by a single result rather than continuous improvement. A student who receives a "Pass" or "Fail" may believe their ability is static, thinking they are either "good" or "not good enough." This mindset contradicts our approach at Music Lab, where we emphasize learning from mistakes, growing through challenges, and developing musicianship beyond simply ticking boxes.


For example, students who struggle with a “C” on a test might avoid challenging material in the future, missing out on opportunities to learn and grow creatively.


Pressure Over Passion


The pressure to perform can overshadow the joy of making music. Many students lose their love for music when lessons focus only on exam preparation. Creativity, improvisation, and personal expression are often on the sidelines in favor of technical drills.


A study published by the National Endowment for the Arts found that 50% of music students reported feeling anxious about exams, which can lead to decreased motivation. Some even begin to measure their self-worth through their grades, distancing themselves from music’s inherent joy.


Missed Opportunities for Exploration


When students focus too much on exam success, they often miss the chance to explore various musical genres and styles. For instance, students preparing for classical exams may not experiment with jazz, rock, or world music. This narrow lens restricts their avenues for inspiration and growth as versatile musicians.


At Music Lab, we encourage students to try their hands at different genres—imagine a young guitarist composing a new pop song while also learning a classic piece. This holistic approach can fuel lifelong passion for music.


Cultivating Passion Through a Growth-Oriented Approach


At Music Lab, we prioritize creating an environment where students can develop a love for music without the constraints of grading systems.


Instead of focusing solely on exams, we encourage musicians to explore their interests, engage with diverse styles, and set personal goals that align with their values.


Emphasizing Personal Development


By prioritizing personal growth over arbitrary benchmarks, students can define success on their terms. This method allows them to set realistic and meaningful goals. For instance, a student might aim to master a complex piece or collaborate in an ensemble. These milestones provide incredible fulfillment, often far more satisfying than simply passing an exam.


A study by the Royal Conservatory of Music showed that 70% of students who engaged in personal goal-setting reported greater satisfaction with their musical experiences.


Encouraging Creativity and Exploration


Free from the constraints of exam preparation, students have more opportunities to focus on creativity and exploration.


At Music Lab, we promote experimentation—encouraging students to play varied instruments, dive into new genres, or create original compositions. This engagement cultivates joy and can lead to lasting enthusiasm for music.


Research indicates that students who engage in creative activities are 60% more likely to maintain their interest in music. By allowing for exploration, students enhance their technical skills while deepening their emotional connection to their craft.


A Balanced Approach to Music Education


While we acknowledge the benefits of graded exams, envisioning a balanced music education that incorporates assessments while ensuring they do not dominate the learning experience is crucial.


Integrating Performance with Creativity


Performance plays a key role in music education. Instead of solely preparing for traditional exams, we propose integrating opportunities that emphasize creativity. This could involve local concerts, talent shows, or informal jam sessions that encourage students to showcase their unique voices. Events like these not only celebrate student achievements but also foster community and connection.


Enhancing Practical Skills


Our curriculum focuses on practical skills that prepare students to become well-rounded musicians.


This includes lessons in ear training, sight-reading, composition, and improvisation. By prioritizing a comprehensive skill set, students gain a deeper understanding of music while learning to express themselves. This approach contrasts with exam-centered learning that often prioritizes technical skills over holistic musicianship.


The Role of Parental Support


As parents, your support plays a vital role in your child’s musical journey.


Encourage Exploration


Encouraging your child to explore various musical interests is crucial. Attend their performances, discuss their musical tastes, and provide opportunities to learn about different instruments. This involvement nurtures their passions and creates a rich learning environment.


Discuss Goals


Engage in regular conversations about your child's music goals. Encourage them to establish objectives extending beyond grades. Discuss how their current lessons can align with their aspirations. Open communication helps to cultivate a growth-oriented mindset that focuses on personal development.


Embracing a Joyful Music Experience


As we explore music education, it is critical to question the traditional narrative surrounding music grades. While assessments serve a purpose in providing structure and direction, they should not overshadow the joy and passion for music learning.


At Music Lab, we dedicate ourselves to nurturing musicians who thrive on creativity, exploration, and personal growth.


We invite parents to join us in this vision for a richer approach to music education—one that empowers students beyond the confines of grades and tests.


Together, we can reshape the music learning experience for future generations and foster a lifelong love for the art of music.

 
 
 

It’s almost time. The Winter Show is just around the corner. The stage is set, the lights are ready, and the excitement is building. But so are the nerves. Whether you’re the student about to step into the spotlight or the parent watching from the audience, you’re feeling it—that uncomfortable mix of excitement and fear.


Here’s the thing: nervousness is good.


 

💪 For the Students: Nerves Are Your Superpower


Feeling nervous before a performance? Perfect. That’s your body telling you that this moment matters. Nerves are energy in disguise. They sharpen your focus, heighten your senses, and push you to rise to the occasion.


But let’s be honest, they’re uncomfortable too. You might wonder, What if I mess up? What if I forget my part? Here’s the truth: those thoughts are normal. Everyone feels them. Even the most seasoned performers.


What sets successful people apart isn’t the absence of nerves; it’s learning how to use them.


When you walk onto that stage, remember this:


🦋 Those butterflies in your stomach? They mean you’re alive.


❤️‍🔥 That pounding heart? It’s preparing you to give your best.


🤲 That shaky feeling? It’s a sign that you care.



Every time you face your nerves and perform anyway, you’re growing. You’re proving to yourself that you’re capable of more than you thought. That’s not just resilience—it’s confidence in the making.


 

🛡️ For the Parents: The Urge to Protect vs. The Need to Let Go


Now, let’s talk about what it feels like to be a parent watching your child navigate this moment. You see the nervous fidgeting, the self-doubt creeping in, and every instinct in you screams, protect them.


You want to tell them they don’t have to do it, that it’s okay to step back, that they don’t need to push themselves. But if you did, what would they learn?


When we shield our children from discomfort, we’re not protecting them—we’re holding them back. We’re unintentionally sending the message that they can’t handle it, that the challenge is too big for them.


But it’s not. They’re stronger than we often give them credit for.


 

🌟 The Beauty of Letting Them Prove Themselves


Think about this: what will they feel when they step off that stage, knowing they faced their fears and gave it their best shot? They’ll feel:


🎉 Proud.


💪 Empowered.


🏆 Capable.



That’s what resilience looks like. It’s built in moments like this, when they step out of their comfort zone and into the unknown. It’s a lesson they’ll carry for life.


Your role as a parent isn’t to shield them but to stand beside them, cheering them on. Let them know it’s okay to feel nervous and that you’re proud of them for trying. Be their support, not their safety net.


 

🔑 Why Nerves Matter


For both students and parents, nervousness is a sign of growth. It’s the signal that you’re doing something meaningful, something worth caring about.


🧑‍🎤 To the students: use those nerves as fuel. Let them remind you that you’re doing something brave.


👏 To the parents: let your child feel those nerves. Let them work through them. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, trying, and learning what they’re capable of.


 

🌈 The Bigger Picture


The Winter Show is about more than music. It’s a celebration of courage. Every note played, every lyric sung, every beat hit—it’s proof that nervousness isn’t something to fear but something to embrace.


🧑‍🎤 To the students: When you step onto that stage, remember: Nervous? Good. You’re growing.


❤️‍🔥 To the parents: When you watch your child perform, remember: Nervous? Good. They’re proving to themselves—and to you—that they’re capable.


Together, you’re part of something extraordinary: the journey of turning nerves into resilience and fear into triumph.



 
 
 

At Music Lab, our mission is to guide each student on a transformative journey through music. It’s about more than just learning an instrument—it’s about developing resilience, creativity, and a deep sense of community. Today, I’m thrilled to introduce Music Lab Certifications: a new way to honor and celebrate students who exemplify dedication, growth, and excellence in our Music Lab family.


About Music Lab Certifications


These certifications are awarded to students who show not only musical progress but also embody a growth mindset and contribute positively to the Music Lab community. Unlike traditional exams, there are no tests or grades involved. Instead, certifications are based on continuous improvement, a willingness to learn, and dedication to being a supportive community member.


As the founder of Music Lab and a dedicated educator with 21 years of professional experience, I will personally oversee and select which students receive certifications and when. These decisions will be based on several factors, one of the most important being our bi-yearly shows. These performances are a powerful way for students to showcase their progress, confidence, and commitment to music. How well each student prepares and performs during these events will weigh heavily in the certification process, reflecting the values we celebrate here at Music Lab.


Music Lab Certifications vs. Traditional Exams


For those interested in formal qualifications, we still offer traditional exams through examination boards. These exams are available for private coaching students, and our teachers can discuss exam options with students on an individual basis. However, exams are not available for group class students, as this would require every student in the group to follow the same curriculum. At Music Lab, we believe in personalized, student-centered learning rather than a standardized approach.


Music Lab Certifications provide a meaningful alternative to exams by recognizing the same qualities that make exams valuable, including technical improvement, dedication, and perseverance. These certifications are widely recognized by schools and other organizations and are suitable for use in award applications, such as the Duke of Edinburgh Award.


About Me – João Figueiredo


As Music Lab's founder, I bring over two decades of professional experience to every decision I make. My background in music education, along with a soon-to-be-completed degree in Educational Psychology, has shaped my understanding of how music can transform students’ lives. At Music Lab, I’ve dedicated myself to building a community where every student can find not only a passion for music but also a pathway to personal growth. This personal involvement means that each certification awarded is a direct reflection of Music Lab’s core values, and I look forward to recognizing our students’ accomplishments firsthand.


How Music Lab Certifications Work


Music Lab Certifications are awarded based on three key elements:


Musical Progress: Ongoing improvement and commitment to mastering their instrument.


Growth Mindset: A willingness to learn, resilience in facing challenges, and curiosity in their musical journey.


Community Engagement: Positive contributions to our community, supporting and encouraging their peers.



The Value of Music Lab Certifications


Each certification reflects a student’s dedication, perseverance, and growth. Beyond recognition, these certifications serve as a testament to students’ hard work and can even be used to support applications for youth awards and school programs, such as the Duke of Edinburgh Award.


We’re thrilled to launch this program and can’t wait to celebrate each student’s unique journey. If you have any questions about Music Lab Certifications or would like to discuss the best path for your child, please feel free to reach out or speak directly with your teacher.


Thank you for being a valued part of the Music Lab family. Let’s keep growing, learning, and making music together.


Warm regards,

João Figueiredo

Founder, Music Lab

 
 
 
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